I want to say "good riddance' to her but that would not be dbing would it. I'm so ticked off at her utter lack of awareness and insight....OMG>
If I knew the OM's w and had the money to spare I'd send HER to the funeral along with the kids who's grandmother died,NOT his "new love".. WHY on earth is your w attending this sad private FAMILY occasion when she is NOT in the family yet and is part of why his REAL family is torn asunder? THIS is his chosen moment to introduce her to his family??? Can he be more tacky and self centered? OMG how can your w be blind to that, as a wife and as a mother? Man they have crossed too many lines but THIS LINE IS LIKE A LINE TO HELL...hope mil haunts them awhile....so gross.
MLC stuff= I totally recognize the way that others who jump thru hoops are barely acknowledged by the MLCer but your w has had TIME to wake up to that, and YOU are somehow "over reacting or making a big deal" about the kids and their games? Oh really? Really? Well Your older son wants to go and keep his promise to teammates, so I guess they were important to him. But you probably did something wacky and over reacting, like ask him what HE wanted.
You remarked and mind read that these comments revolve around her feeling guilt but I would not assume she does, btw. She's SO DEEP into minimizing ANY impact on others b/c of her, b/c she's in "la la heaven land". I almost think the religous "conversion" is a compensatory reaction to cope with bold faced double adultery. The one I feel most sorry for are OM's kids and stbxw. You will be alright thru all this, and she won't be. Financially and otherwise, plus she's got kids to deal with and a psycho ex h soon.
But OM's wife was close to her mil, probably a defender of hers, and must be in pain. And as this woman sees the death of her mil, whom she knew for decades, only to see her own h repeat the behavior of his father that broke his mother's heart oh so long ago. His Bringing your w to that funeral is a slap in the face of his mother, and his stbxw, and his children, and for that alone, he's a jerk. Unforgivable, no excuse.
Just as I said to FIB awhile back, I cannot wait for you to be single and in a healthy r with a woman who "gets it". I am hereby resigning from the "support Pig's M" group, and am joining the "I just want YOU to be happy" group. Sure sure, if your wife snaps out of it all and makes it ALL up to you, we'll all praise God out loud. But til then, I think we can praise him for getting you thru this in one peaceful piece...amen
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
