I think the difference is that OWs mean more time.
I agree! Sorry P and NM. The OW is another obstacle to overcome... but just as i said its a obstacle... not impossible! Unfortunately, it does take more patience and manuevering and now you are dealing with a third part person. regardless of our sitches, we each have H's in some sort of mental crisis... but we will find the tools to help us get through the turmoil!