Thanks Snodderly. I wasn't looking for what most would term a happy ending. I think your ending is just perfect for you... I was just re-reading an old thread where you mentioned you thought your XH was coming through and wondered what happened when he finally made it.
You're an amazing, knowledgeable and giving woman - you've put so much into touching so many stranger's lives - and I bet he'd be really po'd to finally really realize he lost you b/c he was an idiot... probably good for him that he stays stuck. LOL
