You and Babydoll have much better sitch's than me and Newmama where there is OW woman involved.
I was thinking that, too. I think the difference is that OWs mean more time. And more pain probably for LBS. (I'm getting ticked off for all of us right now!!)
He didn't say anything about the surname. So we didn't straight up talk about it. I think he knows he deserves it. Your WH seems to think he deserves stuff after what he did, but mine feels bad and tries to give me things to make up for it. So I bet he feels bad. But I don't see it as a hindrance to us as a family, unless he chooses to be out. And then I have room for a new H!
Validating as a father-- I have to say that I'm glad that I did. He did the best swaddling job. I can't swaddle well, but he read the book and then did a stellar job. I oohed and aahed a lot about it! He said he could come over to swaddle her for me at night. Ha! Didn't pay too much attention to that one. Requires consistency, so . . .
Thanks for responding, P. I'm heading off this site for now!
me, 30 WH, 29 D born June 2010 M: July 2001 Bomb/S: 1/14/10 Done with it all.
