I did some thinking on the ride there and back and here is what I have decided...
1 - She can never, ever have any contact with our "friend" again, in anyway. They will not be facebook friends, he will not be in her cell phone etc...
2 - We go to counseling, starting ASAP.
3 - She must SHOW me how serious she is about repairing this marriage, because right now I don't believe a word she says. If she asks how to show me, I will tell her that right now I don't have any specific answers to that, but a good start would be to agree to #'s 1 and 2.
This is just my thinking right now...
If anyone has any advice I would LOVE to hear it.
I am going back and forth hourly about whether or not to even give her this chance, as I do not know if this is something I will ever be able to get over.
