Allen,Puppy or sandi.... do you have any advice on my last post?

I just want you to know that you guys are spot on most of the time and thx.

Me 37
Waw 32
son2
bomb 8/11/09
O/M 12/25/09
Divorce filed 8/25/09
divorce finale 6/16/10
Divorce putt on hold 6/16/10
Divorce postponed STBXW idea 8/8/10