New to this Community seeking advice

[JR09]

Flying the boys down to CO would be quite expensive. So driving remains my only viable option. But all that driving time is more good bonding time with the boys. I agree with giving my W a courtesy heads-up on my leave plan. At first I thought about just doing it. But I agree it's best to just be open about it.

Tell me Michelle, what could it mean if after 2 solid years my W still hasn't gone forward with divorcing me? I think I asked this question a while ago. I just would like to understand even a small glimpse of what my W could be thinking. Since you are a woman, maybe you have more insight than I do.

I know I am not to mindread anymore and just take care of myself. But I just would like to understand my W's possible thought process after 2 years of living in limbo.

JR