+At first, he didn't communicate with me at all. He had said that he'd be over 'after work' but I finally texted him "So...?" at 8pm and he wrote back that he'd be over in 20. I was pretty upset. + When he first got here, I was aloof, gave him the baby, and went on a walk. I was that upset. + When I got back, I told him I had a problem with his lateness on Sunday and his no communication that day. I also said that i was not 'okay' with much in this situation. I didn't want him to think, I said, that I was 'whatever' about it all. + He listened, nodded, and didn't say anything back. (I had told him he didn't need to respond.) + Then I decided to be pleasant, so we had a decent rest of the night. + In the middle of the night, I woke him up to help a bit. He seemed irritated, but I think he was also nervous about changing the baby. Had never done it before in his life, changed a baby. I didn't realize that, so I just told him to change her and then I went to the bathroom! So that could have been his irritation. + The next morning he asked if he could cook breakfast for me and my family. I said sure. He got all sorts of ingredients and cooked it up. Reminded me of my H. Very nice. + Then he said he had work and he needed to go. But then he said he could just do the work at my place. And he stayed. + We had a great day watching movies and the baby. (He never ended up doing any work!) + At 5, he said he should leave. But he improved his communication-- I think-- and said he'd be here tomorrow around 7, spend the night (I already told him he didn't have to), then stay all day Saturday, and then spend the night again on Saturday! Wow, quite a lot, WH. I told him his mom was staying with me on Saturday, so. . .
So overall I don't know what to think. I went from angry to happy to be with him all in one night. I do know that this reminded me that I really do miss H. I would like to continue life with him, as long as he is H and not WH. And as long as he works hard to get me!
