"Have you been doing your part along with me to keep OM away from our marriage and our children?"
She will say YES
Then you tell her
"No you haven't... I am NOT STUPID"
The Sep Order will be filed as soon as I am complete... You should be ashamed of yourself, and I feel sorry for children that have to tolerate your wrecklessness... THEY ARE INNOCENT in this mess... but THEY will be paying the biggest price
I really am dissapointed you can trash a marriage like this... I thought OM was bad enough..."