My Wife And Her Emotional Affair

[sandi2]

If I confront her, she will just know that I was checking up on her.

So????

You are the second person I have said this to today, but here goes; YOU do not have anything to prove. SHE has everything to prove. YOU are not the one on trial (so to speak) but she is. She is laying a guilt trip on you for checking up on her? Ken....SHE NEEDS TO BE CHECKED UP ON.....don't ya think? Don't allow her to throw some type of moral code on you. That is just too ironic.

So it's the OM's W change of jobs that was causing the move? Yes, I think you are probably right about what he will try. OM's W has no backbone, no spunk, no spit & fire or he would not treat her the way he does. Has the Little Bo Peep method worked for her? I think not.

I think OM is nuts! But, I also think that your W is going to have to find out his true nature before she'll straighten up. I still believe if she thought you were "dumping" her b/c you no longer found her attractive (female pride there)then she would stop throwing herself at OM. Ken, it's human nature. If she believes you don't want her....then she'll forget about that luney-tune.

You are an abused husband. I have decided that you are abused by your own wife. She'll not respect that. She'll not feel in love with a man she can abuse.