Originally Posted By: sandi2
but as long as she's playing the "friends" card and "you're trying to control me" card.....then she is not about to stop contacting OM. That is open defiance in my book!


Yes...and checking the phone records today...she has contacted OM although not at the pace she was...

I'm tempted to move back into the house(I miss seeing my DD's daily and I'm the one paying the mortgage...single income family) and let my 180 take full effect or I may just do that while staying with family.

I guess I'll have to start talking to L or D mediators to find out the next step.

I do have a copy of Dr. Dobson's "Tough Love"

Thanks all!

Last edited by loweinsd51; 06/17/10 09:23 PM.
M-43
FWW-42
T 20
M 16
DD10
DD8
EA: 1/10
Informal separation: 6/11/2010
Headed for D: 7/6/2010
Piecing? 9/10/10