Originally Posted By: Lotus
Sex is a tie that binds. I believe the sexual connection was the biggest factor in holding my marriage together. Try to enjoy it at the same level she does. Unless you are uncomfortable with it, there is no reason to stop.


Ditto! My hubby would state the same thing, I kept having sex with him. I didn't buy it. I felt that it was bonding though and showed how much fun I was to be with. But if it continues for many months then I would change my stance. Which in my case it did and I started to get really reluctant to have sex and finally stated all sex would cxease if the status quo continued....

I think in general women find sex more emotional then men so I think she is just covering her true feelings.


M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)