What about taking any kind of class which doesn't fall in the normal "women" catagory. Home Depot offers Saturday classes. So you could learn something useful and still meet people. Even if you meet some other women, maybe they have a brother or a good guy friend to set you up with. Just saying.
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory