Absolutely agree with Kat. He is so used to being spoon-fed it's pathetic and the hypocrisy of calling you out for things that he has no idea how to take care of himself is ridiculous!
Remember, HE is the one who had himself some fun on the side and wanted this divorce because he couldn't commit to you, HE is the one who wanted to live separate lives - so now he can figure out this stuff on his own. Time he stopped having a mommy do everything for him.