I know, Kat. It was my rescuer instinct popping up. I swear it is just ingrained!! I tried to backpedal by saying "I don't care what you do" but I had already offered.
That is why I did not answer any of the texts last night. I am not going to offer to get his duplicate prescriptions refilled. In the past I would have. And I am not going to offer to watch the kids Monday night. As far as he knows I already have plans. Which I DO--plans to work on my class work!
