Others have told me I am too nice too, but the book says not to become cold or nasty, bust to distance yourself. I think the court would have me move out and her and the kids stay there if living together was an issue, right? Should I move out so she can do everything for herself and find out what she is missing?
The OM's wife does know. She called me and told me what was going on. Then I busted my wife with the phone records and she said she wouldn't call him again. They met, supposedly with friends in tow, at a bar a couple of times. Both say nothing happened except talking, but who knows. I drove her past his house and there was no reaction, so I don't think she has been there. This guys wife had an affair on him previously and their own marriage is a mess. I had a long lunch with her last saturday and he was very mad. Told her to never talk to me again.
I'll take the advice on the friends thing. Maybe I need to start getting colder now? We have actually been working on the divorce papers together! That is probably insane, huh? She is going out with friends this weekend and I am watching the kids. I gotta get a life.
