Its never just sex when it comes to a man and a woman who each had love in their hearts for each other. There are couple of ways to look at this.
1.) She enjoyed sex. In fact enjoyed sex with you. The fact that she calls it "just sex" is just her way of keeping her distance.
2.) She enjoys sex. Perhaps not just with you. Its just sex if someone else is involved.
3.) Maybe her walls, are starting to come down. But for sure, it will be one bumpy ride.
I had sex the day my wife came clean about her affair. It was probably the best sex of our marriage. Next day, completely distant. But I just rolled with it. It killed me. But I just went with it. A week later, my separation ended. Two weeks later, we spent the weekend together without kids. 3 weeks later, we were like HS kids....
GO with the flow. Have no expectations, and BE HAPPY
Married 10 Together 13 ILYB 1/4/2010 Separated: 1/4/2010 Moved back in 1/28/2010 Reconciled 3/14/2010