I am thinking about keeping our meeting on saturday to talk, where I will explain to her what I NEED for us to even "try"... She might not like what I have to say but I am fully prepared to walk away if she is not willing.
I think that's a great idea. YOu need to state what your needs are, your boundaries, and what you want and don't want. Be very clear. Then listen to what she has to say. Big big hugs, Konfuseeed.