Going straight forward...antlers 6th thread.

[antlers]

My oldest daughter -21- is actually my STBXW's from a previous marriage. Her mother has schooled and encouraged her to where she doesn't want to see me.
My youngest daughter -13- has been greatly influenced by her mother and her older sister to where she doesn't want to see me either.
The petition papers say that the kids are supposed to spend about equal times with each parent, but it's not enforced...it's just a guideline. If the kids don't want to go, then they don't have to go.
There is no set visitation schedule. 'Hurting me later' is what my STBXW is counting on...and there's not a lot I can do about it currently.
They've been less successful with my son. He and I are spending good time together. I miss my girls, and it hurts, but it is what it is right now!
She has 'used' the kids as weapons against me.