Meaningless Sex or does it mean something

[Coach]

I made a new thread ,as I don't see anything regarding it in a search.



We for the first time in 2-3 weeks of being separated my wife and I made love. Well not really. It started off as some texts between each other and lead to what I thought was a step forward. I really didn't want it per say, but she wanted it and I didn't want to but I wanted to because she wanted to. I don't know if she felt the same way, but it was the best sex I had in a long time.

It was until after-wards when she hurt me. She said that it was just sex, great sex, nothing more. If I(W) lead differently I(W) am sorry. You were reading this too deeply and this did not change the way I feel. I tried to hold her and managed to kiss her a few times before she backed away.

I didn't say a word or show sadness over it. I just agreed it was nice and told her goodnight.

I am so confused right now. Did this actually mean something and she was testing me or was this hormones and just meaningless sex?

That sucks. She was saying "thanks, but don't read too much into it". The question is why does she need to say that?

women test men,
some women test men continuously,
she's testing your insecurity, your reaction to what she says,
your reply could have been "you're welcome, you too ;-)"

You are always being tested,
you will always be pushed,
woman tend to want to feel secure with the men in their lives, they are attracted to mates that are secure with themselves and confident in themselves.

Don't take a response like that from your wife seriously,
in fact just smile, and say "it was just sex, I wasn't reading anything more into it than that, I had a good time", smile and walk away.

She said that it was just sex, great sex, nothing more.

Womenspeak - statements are questions and questions are statements


Then do the two finger wave from right to left to turn on the Jedi mind trick

"it was just sex, I wasn't reading anything more into it than that, I had a good time",