Thanks for this, kml.

54, drum set, rock band, new guys. Good for you! Perhaps there is hope for me yet.

I guess the path to enlightenment isn't supposed to be easy, right? couldn't I have been given another path--like, say, a near death experience?

Doing OK--lots of grief coming up as I work thru the summer: this time last year X was....this time last summer we talked about...this time last summer X was concurrently sleeping with OW and me...

I never did like summer, anyhow! Bring on the fall, winter, and more healing time.

What to bring to my C this afternoon? how do I work on this intimacy thing? what do I want/need in my new life?