@gabbysmom23: ...am I what a rich single Dr. wants? prob not....his striking good looks, and his money. We all know he could have his pick of any woman!
You know who might not know that? Doctor Man, Himself.
Maybe Doctor Man has been burned by women attracted to a good-looking rich doctor who see a nice payday in their future. Maybe Doctor Man isn't superficial. Maybe Doctor Man doesn't realize he has striking good looks (low self-esteem is gender neutral). Maybe Doctor Man is interested in a legit Good Woman. Maybe Doctor Man has just been too dam busy being Doctor Man to even give it much thought and would simply be happy/grateful that someone asked him out and treated him like a normal human being and not like Man And Superman.
I have no idea what is going through a guys head!
With some (minor) variation, it pretty much goes like this on any given day:
Wakeup: Sex, coffee, food. Morning: Sex, coffee, sports, sex, coffee, sports, sex, carburetors, sex. And "work" might get squeezed in there for a few nano-seconds. Lunch: Food, sex, sports. Afternoon: Sex, sports, "research" on the Internet, sex, researching sex on the Internet, sports, researching sports on the Internet, snacks, coffee, sex. And "work" might get squeezed in there for a few more nano-seconds. Dinner: Food, sex, drinks, sex, taxi fare. Bedtime: Sex.
We're pretty basic, we lads.
@lilac:within the past three months I relocated from MA to San Francisco.
That would tend to make things more difficult. Perhaps you're coming off the starting blocks too quickly (@gabbysmom -- see? sports metaphor!). Maybe just get the lay of the land, so to speak (see? sex metaphor!), before you try to figure out who what where how. If there's a particular interest you have, you could consider a class at one of the kajillion universities in SFO. Or an alumni group in town from Whatever State U, etc. Maybe get unpacked a bit.