She is going to say something about the fact that I canceled MC and now she is not getting her way and she can't "live" like this. I almost don't know how to react....
Don't mind read.
Validate her feelings, really listen, don't let her think/feel/believe for you (mind read), let her pursue you, you don't have to come to any conclusions right now, don't pick the rope back up.
If she brings up the MC just say, "You are right. This marriage isn't working for me either. I have some decisions to make about what is best for me."
As long as she can keep you afraid of the divorce she has the control, once you agree with the D she won't know how to react. Make sense?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
