My friend - for you to "get even" with him means you would have to stoop. And I would NEVER direct a bright, healthy, intelligent young woman to be less than she is. You don't want to get even with him - you want to excel, succeed in your life, grow and thrive.
Volunteer. Start a book club. Take up a sport that challenges your athleticism. Step up the interaction you have with your own family. Consider your spirituality. Step up your interaction with you GIRLfriends. Get a pet - or start a garden. Bravo on the baking class - excellent idea. But for God's sake don't bring that man your cupcakes. Give them to someone who will enjoy what they represent. Enough with the cupcakes already Sign up to run a race. Close your eyes, put your finger on a map and take a trip to that place.
Liberated, that's you.
No more whining, Dumped. No more breaking down. Take control. Greek
Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08