WAH and LBW separated and dark

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his mom laid it on thick with the "your father is living on borrowed time. he could die any day of a heart attack. he doesn't eat healthy. he doesn't exercise. he's just going to bite the big one soon. he may never see another father's day. or another christmas."



that's how it has been. i lived it. i watched it. i didn't stop it. i can't make someone love me. he has to want to love me. i put my foot down a few times. it came back to bite me. interpreted as me hating his family.

i don't know. when your father loses $10k of your hard earned money on bad stock tips. and then feels guilty and takes a $25k loan out to try and make the money back. and ends up losing that too. and then has the balls to ask you to pay for the interest on the loan that your FATHER took out. who's the f*ked up one? is it really me? you still love him despite that?

btw, you are also down another $40k on another bad stock that he purchased with your money. you want me to continue? if money is so important to you, go ask him to pay for the losses.



your family uses money to exert control over you. your finances are so f*ked up for someone with a finance degree. and you can't tell the difference between who is or isn't money hungry. so you accuse me?! prove it.



she's not looking out for your best interest. she's looking out for her own best interest.
she drove away your father's friends. she is slowly driving away your friends. she drove away your w.
all for what? so she could control the family unit again?
your father is clinging to you because she drove away his friends.
it isn't a loving relationship. it's toxic.



i cannot continue this conversation. otherwise i will break down.

Stop breaking down. I mean, why break down? You want this hell of a life back - so own it and buck up. You want this crazy, mean, stupid lifestyle back - you're even falling apart b/c you DON'T have it! So you see, even if you win your H back to the M, you lose b/c you get all the business I highlighted in red.

I think you are meaner to yourself than anyone else, b/c you are willing to accept a relationship where you are NOT a partner, but #2 until #1 dies.

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