How to tell the kids

[Barkley]

She is the one who wants out and I beleive that should be CLEAR to your children. If it comes to that with me, I am going to say that I have made my fare share of mistakes but wanted to stay togethor. It is HER decsion to break up your family, not yours. As far as I am concerned, If I get divorced, in my mind it will be as though she never existed