If you now know what to expect and can emotionally handle it, go on if you want.
The three or four times my W and I had sex after the bomb, it was great. The next day, though, was always such a let down for me. After the first time she told me it was just sex, didn't mean anything, etc., I was crushed. The next time, I asked her if we could build on this, use it as a building block to repair our M. She said yeah, sound good. Next day, same crap. Finally, the next couple of times, I treated it as if I had picked up some whore in a bar and had a one night stand. The sex was wild animal monkey sex! Fantastic! I quickly realized that's not what I want from my W. When and if I am single again, I could go pick up some slut at a bar and do it that way. Maybe that's what my W wants. She won't get it from me.
