Had a 45 minute talk with my atty yesterday. H has sent over an IRA withdrawal application for me to sign. My atty only agreed if he opens a separate account with a checking account so we can see everything he's spending it on. Money in, money out.
The withdrawal is for $17K with $4 going to her, $2 going to me, $5 going to his atty, $3 going to the IRS and $3 going to him. What she doesn't know is that he called a credit card activation number this morning. Wonder how she'll react when she finds out.
My question is how this is going to effect distribution? My atty says it won't effect me at all because there is a stipulation somewhere that says so. (But I know it has to in some way, if only for the fact that he will be $17 less rich). Are there any accountants on these boards?