Interesting- for years I thought BPD too but the negative snarky comments, put downs and attempting at controlling my life, etc. made me see things differently. Who knows?
Regardless, I think SP has to really take on the role of super parent- I just worry that the soon-to-be Mrs. SP can really affect their self-esteem (especially the girl they really cling to their moms....) Shame...
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)