I have accepted my role and I have changed in the ways she has asked me to, but to no avail. One, I have done too much now and I think she may have lost respect for me. Two, I have been too desperate and needy for 5 months and was unable to give her the "space and time" she requested. She is sleeping in the guest room now, but she has also filed for divorce and we are in for $6k. I feel it is too late and that I pushed her out the door with my relentless pursuit. Now we have to tell the kids we are getting a divorce? I just don't feel like I can take this anymore. Everything I do seems to be wrong, but at least I have started to stand-up for myself. Got my own bank and credit card. Canceled one card, but still have to cancel one more that we both use. She says she won't run it up, but can I trust her? Trying to remain strong and pretend I am moving on, but it doesn't always happen that way.
