I feel most concerned for my children and that's the piece that keeps me stalling.
All of us who have kids have been here.
One thing I discovered about myself though, was that I would be concerned for the kids and angry for the kids b/c I had a hard time owning that I was angry,concerned and downright scared for me. Once I was able to recognize that and deal with it, I was able to change my perspective on things and take better care of both myself and my D's.
I'm glad you found the group. I hope it works out for you.
