Is it safe to presume I should not reveal HOW I know about the OM? Saw this quote on a reading list on DB FB.
"What about evidence before you confront? Love and respect yourself to rise above snooping through his records to build a case. It will make you angry. It is demeaning. It will thwart the process if there is a possibility of reconciliation. Snooping puts you on the same level as the person cheating -- he is sneaking around and so are you."
That kind of gives me a weaker case because I sure won't be able to bring up the "sex goodies" receipt? Unless 'I came across it in your jacket looking for your cigarettes. I ran out"
