How to tell the kids

[dday101798]

First: Tell the kids only what you must, that you BOTH love them very much and this, WHATEVER the outcome is has NOTHING to do with them or that love.

Second: NEVER say never, and never believe when she says she will "never" feel that way again. I'm living proof if it helps.

Third: Don't even try to be a pshycologist and declaire her in MLC, or anything else to "plan a strategy". She is a WAS, nothing more, nothing less.