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[Greek]

How do I figure out her moods? The more exposing I do, the more lies she get caught in, the worse she becomes. Is it guilt or just anger? What does it matter? Would she stay if she had anywhere to go? Is she staying because she isn't really sure?

Who knows? Maybe not even your W. But really, her moods, her motivation, her options - are not your territory. Her behavior - what she actually does - is what you need to deal with. The rest is a mystery and you'll make yourself crazy trying to discern all that.
Greek