I am going to start GALing I am going to do some 180's I am going to get boxes, leave them out and if he does not break contact then I am going to pack his stuff in boxes I am going to find a new job in the next 2 months That is my plan. He has this chance..Lets see what he does with it. But I will not give in to him anymore.
I'm holding you to this, Swimming! This is a fine plan ONLY IF YOU EXECUTE IT. Get strong. Greek
Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08
What can I do on my end to let him know I am serious this time...and that it needs to end. RIGHT NOW! Because I dont think he takes me seriously...or respects me OR the kids
What can I do on my end to let him know I am serious this time...and that it needs to end. RIGHT NOW! Because I dont think he takes me seriously...or respects me OR the kids
You have already made this known. You've said it. Don't repeat it. Don't say another word about it. It's out there. Then, if he busts the boundary, you very calmly lower the boom on him. That's it. No more talking - just act.
What are you doing for yourself today? Greek
Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08
ya know Greek..not much..still running, lifting weights but other than that..not a damn thing...
Got an idea for you. Find a marathon in your area and start training for it. No joke. It takes 18 weeks to prepare for a marathon. And you can do it! What a goal! Greek
Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08
Honestly....I cant do this anymore. I am sick to my stomach and I know it is because I am not making the right decision. I should have kicked him out. He is going to keep doing this to me. He really is and I know it. I know it because her divorce was final yesterday and she can do whatever she wants now, she can move him in, she can do whatever...not sure why she could not move him in the first time I kicked him out..could it be because her divorce was not final? I dont know but right now I really think it is time to let him go. It is not healthy for me to live like this..it really is NOT. I cant do it anymore. It is not good for me or my kids and he is being so disrespectful in so many ways. What is the likelyhood of him stopping this time? I mean really...there are NO consequences..he knows I will just keep taking him back and I cant do that anymore! Cant and wont!
I am just really really scared. This man has been a part of my life since I was 15 years old. We have been together for 11 years and I feel sad for my kids...What are the chances of this working out for him and OW?
