You have to be aware of what she really is telling you. Treating and speaking to your wife like she is a man is counterproductive. Do what works. Be a cat whisperer.
I hear what your saying, Coach. I am still learning.
How do I figure out her moods? The more exposing I do, the more lies she get caught in, the worse she becomes. Is it guilt or just anger? What does it matter? Would she stay if she had anywhere to go? Is she staying because she isn't really sure? Is it good that she's still here or would it be better for both of us if she left? Would she see what we had could be found again? Would I miss her as much as I think I would?
Lot's of question marks there. Just thinking out loud.
Thanks for taking the time, as always, Coach.
You seem to be able to tell the days I really need it.
