Yes. He did...and I let him stay last night. I am stupid.
You are not stupid - you are scared. You WERE scared - you're not now. When he comes home, say "H, when I said no contact with ow, that is what I meant. You had lunch with her Monday and that is unacceptable and destructive to our marriage. You have a week to find another place to live and I will be interviewing lawyers first thing in the morning. I have decided that I will not live in an open marriage."
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Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08