Arrrrggggghhhhh! I feel like screaming! My H just called me, saying his mother had contacted him, asking when he was going to tell his sister about our situation. He wanted to know what I thought. When I told him it didn't really matter to me, he blew up!
He said that he keeps feeling increased resentment from me and that I'm just bitter all of the time. Hmm, projecting? So hard to try not to defend myself. I wanted to scream at him "why on earth wouldn't you think I'd be bitter? You had an affair, filed for divorce and are leaving me for OW?". I tried to maintain calm and just repeated that it didn't matter to me when he or his mother talked to his sister, it didn't make a difference. He said that he was trying to be courteous in seeking my opinion but obviously since I didn't care, he didn't care either.
So hard to remain detached. Crap. Now my mood is down again.
Me - 38 Husband - 40 MLC! Together 12 years Married 11 years Still the love of my life Forever only lasted 10 years before his MLC and affair
