Part of my problem is that I let WW and our relationship define me rather than me defining me...make sense?
this is very common in marriages! you're not alone!
just wondering,though...why does your wife get "kid free weekends" EVERY weekend? Are you not able to see the kids during the week?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004