Last night my husband forwarded me the email that contains the divorce papers he got from his lawyer. This morning, he got up at 5:30am, packed his car and left. We are supposed to be working this afternoon and all day tomorrow, but I guess that would get in the way of his OW time. <sigh> lots of bitter feelings.

He called me about 9:30 this morning, wanting to know if I had read the papers. I admit that I just gave them a cursory glance once through, it was too depressing to delve into further. I told him that I had noticed that some major assets were not mentioned, I didn't know if they had to be, obviously I haven't had a chance to contact my lawyer yet. H got all offensive, saying something about "you know we already talked about this, I hope you don't think I'd be a jerk and take stuff from you, right?" Hmmm, how on earth could I possibly think he'd be a jerk? I just told him that we can talk about it more in person, that's assuming he actually comes back. However, since he still has stuff here I suppose it will happen eventually.


Me - 38
Husband - 40 MLC!
Together 12 years
Married 11 years
Still the love of my life
Forever only lasted 10 years before his MLC and affair

H started D paperwork 5/13/10