ML, no it hasn't been 13yrs. That's when he left the first time. 13yrs. ago and was gone for 2 1/2 months and was diagnosed with depression.
We have been separated now for 19 months. We were just together in March and talking about dating etc. Then a week later he said he didn't think it would be a good idea. Now nothing. See instead of an OW he has the devil on his shoulder called his family. They don't want us back together even though they are the ones that pushed the marriage. Go figure.
