Not sure which way to go anymore

[Abbey]

Mystik,....

He won't listen and hear what you're saying because: He's screwed in the head.

As far as I'm concerned, your H does deserve a hard kick on the rear. That all said... I DO understand your feeling in your gut. I lived this too. Preggers whore, screwed in the head H... and knowing you're not "done" yet.

I urge you... it's time to work on you. We folks here, have diff opinions on where your H's head is/was... and even if he deserves you. I will say though that the best thing you can do for you... and the potential of getting him back... is to get you back on track.

I believe all the same pieces I had... are sitting in front of you the same way. You need to re-shuffle the deck to put this whole mess into YOUR favor.

So... it's time for some tough love hon... you aren't in the place where you can get him back right now. Never mind that yes, he's screwed in the head,... but your project,... your JOB when it comes to the future and whether he may be in it... has to be to get you back. Work on you. Make you the best person you can be... so that only a MORON wouldn't want to be with you. Only a complete fool wouldn't be begging you to come back.

How do people attract the opposite sex?... by shining. It's time for you to polish yourself back up... for YOU... but also if you have a chance to get H back. Get outwardly angry... don't let the slimmy whore tramp win. Read some opposite sex "attraction" information... we all get lazy and forget these parts. But also learn how whore tramps work. How these women work... how to outlast, outwit them.

I realized that I had to do the work on me... and with that... the fighter in me decided I was smarter than the tramp. I was better than the tramp. And like a good snake in the grass... PATIENT. You need to stop wanting "now" and start building yourself so that NOBODY can move you. Nobody can win against you.

Sounds outright daunting... but it's not. It's in the place between your ears. Get flipping mad darlin... time to view this next phase as YOUR challenge to beat the b***h at her own game. Forget now because YOU aren't ready. HE's not ready. He's got a path to go through, and honestly... he's not ready in the head to not put you through this pain again someday. You don't want this version... respect that this is part of the path that you both need to take. Let go. By letting go, you'll come out the winner in this.

I wish I could hug you and then shake you. Get mad and then get proactive. You can wait this out and be the winner... Learn patience and learn "tramp" smarts. Use your time to train wisely.

*hugs*
Abbey