reconciliation after divorce?

[dday101798]

AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!

I seriously hope that many read this. That you can look through all the bull that is going on in your situations and KNOW, especially in the case of WAW's there is painful emotion behind closed doors, no matter what is going on, even if there is a OP.

Conversly, I also SERIOUSLY hope that many read this and start to keep their own personal feelings about their situations out of their "advise" to others. If AC had listenen to "she's doing this because she's a heartless cheater" or "she's just a flat out liar", this likely would have been another situation ended in the divorce un-busted file. And in saying that, I hope all can rid yourselves of that thinking in your situations, it's only making it worse. Know that deep down, you WAS DOES have feelings. They are not some heartless abductee, "pod person" our what ever simply eff'n ridiculous little name you have for them.

AC, best of luck. You're off to a good start. Take the pace slow and steady. She is frail and can only handle so much. I know you want to jump both feet at the same time, don't. Follow her pace. Get all the 'junk' out in the open and clean it up, but take a break when she gets tired. And most of all, be completely honest and open with each other!