Originally Posted By: Jstar
any db coach will tell you if you have sexual relations with your wah/w expect them to back pedal and withtdrawl.
Originally Posted By: Lotus
Sex is a tie that binds. I believe the sexual connection was the biggest factor in holding my marriage together. Try to enjoy it at the same level she does. Unless you are uncomfortable with it, there is no reason to stop.
Two different answers. Ah this is so confusing.

The reason I did it was(since I started listening) is that we only had sex when I wanted to. If you think of it, it doesn't work with out me. Besides the point..... This was a time she wanted it but I still don't, as the separation has changed me and my goals are on other things, besides sex. Granted it is one of them, but something further down on my list of 180's. It's not like I didn't want it, I just thought it meant more. I did enjoy it, I always have with her. I do feel a bit uncomfortable, as I don't understand why just the sex, if she says it doesn't change her feelings for me.

Originally Posted By: Steve McQueen
did she orgasm?
Yes, it seemed like best she had in a long while.


Me 31 Wife 34
(Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6
Married 3/3/01
Separated 6/4/10
Bomb 6/14/10
Served 6/22/10
EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10
Now Back Together 8/1/10