Wife moves out 5 mnths ago with the classic WAW script.
I back off, do my 180's and we gradually start to see each other, talk, and have sex occasiionally.
last month I thought we were really stating to reconnect, so I strated a R talk. I told her I still wanted to try to save the marriage, but the only thing I required for us to continue was that I had no know she was not seeing anyone else.
She told me she was, but it was "not serious".
The not serious comment meant nothing to me, and I told her I was done, and went dark.
After about a month, last night rolls around, and she calls me.
She wants to "try" and comes clean about everything.
The person she was "seeing" was a mutual friend of ours. Someone who actually hung out with me during this separation, and best friends with one of my good friends.
I am devastated. I knew she was seeing someone, so that wasn't the surprise, but WHO she was seeing was.
I told her I needed to think about things now.
I am so angry, I have no idea what to do.
All I wanted was for my wife to be willing to try to repair our marriage, and now she does, but of course there had to be a twist...
