That is awesome advice. I found out that he saw her again on Monday. I am at my breaking point. I want to keep my family together so I have decided to give the ultimatium of no contact, end the affair or move out. I am not a bad wife. I have been a great wife. SHE is filling his head with so much bs and I am at the point where I feel like saying ya know..OW he's yours...take him. He has forgotten everything we shared. He has no respect for me at all. I thought I was doing the right thing by giving him chances...but the message needs to be loud and clear this time...Last CHANCE...This is it. If I find out again he has to leave because the pain is too much. I know that I may have not done the right thing by not kicking him out but I felt as if I needed to give him that one last chance. Just one. That is it..he has no lives left.
