so you are one of those people shooting in the woods scaring the crap out of me neato. my mom wouldn't let me have a gun or a motorcycle or a tattoo.
Maybe, I am way off base with this divorce busting, But I think it is all about going out and doing things that excite you, having fun. if you attract your mate back into the game great you can have sex in the back seat during and after wards. If not, oh well, worse can happen.
but talking about communication problems?????? is she going to understand what you say about what she didnt understand you saying before.
do do do. i sure could use a pedicure. oh and a foot massage. yeah.... sniff is that perfume from the magazine on me or is it just stuck in my nose. da da da. and whats he saying. oh talking about how we dont communicate. no $hit $sherlock. whats new. de de de.
you think she is thinking anymore than that in these "therapy" sessions
Bolded by me. Actually yes Steve I DO think she is putting more into our sessions then that. If you go back and re-read my now locked original thread you will see that during one of our first one's, when I was venting about how her current sitch gives her everything she wanted that I was falling short on she let it slip that " no it doesnt, because I dont have YOU !" Now that would NEVER have happened in a private one on one conversation, at least not as quickly as it did. The counselor observed that she didnt mean to blurt that out, but that it was in fact genuine.
Not that she didnt mean to say it, just that she didnt mean for me to hear it right now. I certainly have my up and down days, and waver back and forth between positivity and despondence,for right now I absolutely believe that we WILL reconcile this eventually, but its going to take a TON of work on my part and lots of time on hers.
