There are hard times to come, especially if she starts bringing OM around my kids or otherwise gets even more serious with him like marrying him. That would be hard to deal with I think after the damage those two caused, but I will cross that bridge if I need to. Maybe they will blow up and he will be gone. I feel like I would be relieved if she found someone else at this point, almost welcoming it.
Funny you say that, as I feel the same way about my W's OM. I told her to tell him that he is to never be in my presence. I would have a hard time with them being married and handling my kids' daily routines. I could never handle him dropping them off at my house or relating to him in any way.
I would love to see her relationship blow up and have her find someone else that I could actually be comfortable with.
WAW Using God Me-43 W-40 M-14 S-11 S-9 D-7 EABomb 5/09 Separated 12/09
