Ummmm, don't you have an answering machine??? She feels (probably) that you are always available to her. Don't be. Let her "feel" what missing you is. Keep yourself busy doing things you have always wanted to do.

Again, right now you want to lean on each other but for what purpose? So that you will always be her support while she goes out and dates other men?? I don't think that is what you want. If I am wrong, keep doing what you are doing.

kat

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