It's all about her and her wants- ah, *gasp*-"you mean your not going to do what I want?!", instant tears, martyr role, evil daughter for not complying with mother's every whim....
This actually sounds more like BPD:
NPD: "I'm so superior that everyone else should adore me and love me and do what I want. Anyone who does not do this threatens my (actually very fragile)sense of superiority and is therefore evil."
BPD: "My emotional needs are so great that I can't even begin to think about anyone else. Everyone else should focus solely on filling my needs. Anyone who does not do this is abandoning me and is therefore evil."
Both end up being manipulative, angry, abusive, unempathetic, etc.
Both end up blaming others for their problems, conveniently adjusting facts to meet their views of the world, etc.
Neither will admit that they are actually even part of the problem.
Neither is capable of introspection, and therefore neither is capable of changing.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
